I started writing my blog 3.5 years ago and have limped along to reach 97 posts. Before this summer is over, I will have accomplished 100 blog posts. For those bloggers who are diligent enough to write every day or even every week, this may not seem like such an auspicious accomplishment in 42 months. On average, I wrote a little more than 2 posts a month. However, for me, someone who pours her heart and soul into the blog and someone who never believed in herself as a writer, it feels as satisfying as climbing a really tall mountain (but probably not as extraordinary as reaching the Summit on Everest!). Part of the joy of the experience for me has been meeting many other bloggers and becoming an active member of the blogging community. I have so much respect and appreciation for anyone who makes the effort to string together thoughts in coherent and, often, moving ways. I admire anyone who will share parts of themselves that might otherwise be too scary or feel off-limits for public consumption. Pushing beyond our limits and digging into some dark crevices are the hallmarks of powerful writers and I am fortunate to have encountered many over the years.
One of my favorite bloggers is a dear friend in my town who was inspired to start writing this year after the horrific events that marked the end of 2012. Between the ravages of Hurricane Sandy and the horror of the Sandy Hook shootings, my friend Claire decided she needed to be intentional about putting kindness back into our lives and committed herself to writing every day for 365 days to promote kindness and, hopefully, start a movement. When she mentioned this to me and asked for some advice, I wholeheartedly encouraged her because I simply loved the premise. How wonderful it would be to find 365 ways to spread kindness and impact our community. What none of us ever expected was the inevitable twists and turns that life takes in the course of a year and how it would forever change her mission and her focus yet make her blog one of the most powerful vehicles for not only kindness but healing, inspiration and joy.
This week, dear sweet Claire’s blog A Project for Kindness was nominated for the Sunshine Blogger Award. Ever kind, Claire, in turn, nominated me for the same recognition in order to pay it forward. Now it is my turn to do the same. It is time for me to acknowledge all of those bloggers who inspire me and motivate me to keep telling my story.
Here are the rules for the award:
- Include the award logo in a post or on the blog
- Include a link to the person who nominated you (thanks again to A Project for Kindness for the nomination).
- Write 10 random things about yourself
- Nominate ten other bloggers who “positively and creatively inspire others in the blogosphere”, and let them know you nominated them.
So here are the 10 random things about myself:
- I was a spelling bee champion in elementary school and I am a complete grammar nut (as many close friends and family members can attest to).
- I have a terrible fear of heights and have never been on a roller coaster or most thrill rides at theme parks.
- I have an allergy to shellfish which I developed right before I went to college. I learned about my allergy after feasting at Red Lobster with my parents during Orientation Weekend for college in Binghamton, NY. That was no fun.
- I have never broken any bones in my body. I did, however, come close last year when I suffered a hairline fracture in my ankle after sparring with a friend in karate (I was secretly excited to finally have been athletic enough to get injured!).
- I have two children and, in between them, I suffered a ruptured ectopic pregnancy which came dangerously close to killing me. As a result, I had to use in vitro fertilization to conceive my second son.
- I am obsessed with reality television – I am a Real Housewives addict and I am not proud.
- I was never in love with anyone before my husband.
- My husband and I got engaged within 6 months after we met.
- I did not try sushi until I was 40 and now I am obsessed with it.
- I took 3 years of Latin in high school and can only remember one thing – Poetae sunt agriculae
10 Bloggers who I think, “positively and creatively inspire others in the blogosphere”
- Tom Aplomb
- Rebel Thriver
- An Inch of Gray
- The Better Man Project
- Better Life Coaching Blog
- Maggie Mae I Just Say This
- Mom in the Muddle
- Brene Brown
Please check out these blogs and, especially, Claire’s blog! And, please keep reading and sharing my blog. Big #100 is coming for me and I promise to make it a great one!